We have known eachother for 4 years but did not start dating until 2017

The breakup had only just happened so he would definitely still be feeling upset or angry at you right now. I suggest giving him some space first to cool off while you also focus on getting yourself to an emotionally stable place first before reaching out again. Start off as friends first and slowly work your way up from there.

I had a boyfriend previously for 2 years in high school that i thought I was in love with i ended up cheating on him

I am 18 years old and ive been on and off with this guy who is 20. I went with the guy i cheated on him with which is the one im speaking of now. I ended up cheating on the guy I have now with my ex and I never told him and it continued several times. My boyfriend found oit and we broke up in . I begged him that i wouldnt do it again and within a month we started talking again but did not get back togetger officially. Now ive told my boyfriend the whole truth and he barely told me ever since I cheated on him the first time he has been cheating on me as well. I thought now that we have told eachother everything we can start over and i keep trying and begging but he keeps saying hes not ready and wants to go out and be free. What do i do to get him back? Please help i love him and we have been through so much.

In between that time I have still been talking with and seeing my sex and cheating

If both parties found out that the other has been cheating this whole time with someone else, don’t you think there wouldn’t be any trust or inclination to get back into such a toxic relationship, at least for the time being? I would suggest taking some time apart to let both parties breathe a little and time to let go of everything that has happened. Simply work on your emotions and make mongolian brudar positive self-improvements for now, and if you really want to win him back, you’re going to have to stop letting your impulsions take charge and sleep around with other people, especially if you start talking to him again.

My ex is my colleague – we work together for a Client. I have cheated on him by being flirty with another colleague which at the time i had no idea about the seriousness of the situation. I was not aware, and simply stupid. We’ve been together for around six months and broke up on Saturday (yesterday). He told me does not ever want to see me or talk to me or have anything to do with me bc im a ho. He even said he won’t be able to work together anymore so he’s going to quit the job. Mind you – we were sitting next to a fire place with about six other people and the problem was that i was sitting next to a guy too close – and I sat in his lap – which I do not remember but could’ve happened. I don’t know what to do. It’s impossible not to meet him. I’m taking some days off and trying to stay at home office for the next two weeks. Do you think that two weeks of not seeing each other will help at all? What should I do? I love him, I was not taking this whole thing serious enough since we’ve been hiding our relationship at work – because for obvious reasons company protocol doesn’t allow it. Please help